Am I a Difficult Person to Get Along With?

By: Denis Priesnov
Updated: 9 months ago
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Recently, my attention fell upon an interesting topic - a problematic person test. Of course, we all have people that are just difficult to get along with in our lives. But if you are such a problematic person yourself? Or am I?   
am i hard to get along with quiz
This is where such a test comes in handy. Because determining a hard person communication-wise is relatively easy. It comes to your inner feelings about the person and whether you like hanging out with them or not. But can we take a look at ourselves? An objective look? This is where a third party comes in handy. And this quiz is meant to be such a third party. It’ll be as objective as it can! It’s an AI algorithm, after all. Although a real person is behind creating the questions and answers (yours truly!), I believe that such an experiment should still be rather objective. These questions are not my personal take on what it means to be a difficult person. Of course, we all hate some specific human qualities that may contradict others’ opinions. Instead, I’ve chosen professional studies on the topics searching for the difficult person signs. These are the most common signs revealed by unbiased surveys and poles. Thus, I hope this quiz will uncover how other people see you. Don’t take the results too seriously, though. You are who you are, and no quiz can dictate your life. Be kind to yourself. If you want to improve yourself, go on. But do that for the right reasons and not an indirect push of online resources. 

Difficult Person Sign

You Have Few Friends

am i easy to get along with
Of course, alone, this sign can’t tell whether you are a difficult or a pleasant person. However, when in combination with other signs, it’s quite a typic sign of being hard to communicate with. For example, you may have only a few good friends because you like it that way. However, if you strive for many friends and still can’t manage to increase your inner circle, there might be an issue with how you behave around others. So, take a look at your friends. Do they like to hang out with you and include you in their lives? 

You Are a Bad Listener

 People generally don’t like humans who talk non-stop or don’t pay attention during a conversation. These are the two sides of being a lousy listener. Have you noticed that you talk about yourself all the time? Or do you space out often when meeting with others? Daydreaming is cute, but respect for others is essential as well. 

You Get Angered Often

 If you are easily triggered, chances are people don’t really like talking to you. You are a walking bomb, and anything can set the explosion. Plus, you are probably hot-headed and don’t think before speaking usually. Thus, you often say many hurtful things even when not genuinely meaning them. There are only three signs, but they are highly important in determining a problematic person. To learn the rest, complete this quiz. Also, you may want to check this Am I a Snowflake quiz. It may be well connected to being difficult. 

Am I a Difficult Person to Get Along With? Questions

problematic person test Is it easy for you to compromise?
  • yes

  • no

  • it's not easy but I do it anyway

problematic person test Do you easily get angered?
  • yes

  • no

  • depends on the situation

problematic person test Are you generally a hot-headed or cold-hearted person?
  • hot-headed

  • cold-minded

problematic person test How often do you feel loneliness?
  • very often 

  • rather often 

  • sometimes

  • rarely

problematic person test Are you more of a listener or a talker?
  • listener

  • talker

  • I'm the perfect balance

problematic person test Are you a fan of giving free advice?
  • the biggest 

  • only where I'm an expert 

  • not a fan; only when people ask 

am i hard to get along with quiz Do you like arguments?
  • I thrive in them 

  • not the biggest fan, but I can hold my own 

  • no, I don't like them 

am i a difficult person to get along with quiz Do you think that your opinion is the only correct one?
  • yep

  • no 

problematic person test Do people usually find you intimidating?
  • I have no idea

  • I know they do

  • I suspect they do

  • definitely no

am i a difficult person to get along with quiz Do you have many friends?
  • yes, a lot 

  • just enough 

  • a few

am i complicated quiz How often do you hang out with them?
  • very often 

  • pretty often 

  • on occasion 

  • rarely 

problematic person test Do you complain often?
  • yes, rather often 

  • on occasion 

  • rarely 

problematic person test Are you a competitive person?
  • yes! very competitive

  • rather competitive

  • just a bit competitive

  • not competitive at all

problematic person test Are you clingy? (be honest with yourself!)
  • yes

  • just a bit 

  • no 

problematic person test Do you gossip eagerly?
  • yep. probably a bit too much

  • I never pass the opportunity

  • I'm not really a big fan

problematic person test Do you hold grudges?
  • for ages!

  • for a couple of years, yes

  • just a bit 

  • no, that's not my style 

problematic person test Do you like debating a lot?
  • yes, a lot! 

  • hmm, somewhat 

  • not really 

problematic person test Are you usually angry and explosive when hungry?
  • yes, all the time!

  • only when I'm really really hungry 

  • no, I'm a calm person 

problematic person test Do you like people in general?
  • not really 

  • no, I hate them most of the time 

  • they are okay I guess

  • nah, I like them 

problematic person test Do you like this cat?
  • yes, it's cute 

  • not really 

  • no, I don't like cats 

am i hard to get along with quiz How often do you complain?
  • a bit too often 

  • just a fair amount 

  • not much 

problematic person test In problematic situations, who is more often at fault, you or other people?
  • I am

  • it's around 50/50

  • like 75% other people

  • others, of course

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