Love Language Quiz: Which Do You Speak?

By: Denis Priesnov
Updated: 9 months ago
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 As kids, we learn the language to communicate with family and friends. As adults, we take on a new kind of language to express our love. Each person is unique, and their love is always special. If you have never heard about love languages and what they are, take a look at the information below before proceeding to the Love Language quiz. You can also go there with a blank mind on the topic and no prejudice and later return to read more about the type of love language you have. 


 You may not have heard about love languages because this is a relatively new concept. It is not something with centuries of theory and research piled up to have tons of basis. This concept was introduced in 1992 by the renowned couple therapist Gary Chapman. After years of personal research, Chapman distinguished five types of love language that cover all couples' studies. In the last 30 years, the concept of these languages remains the same with no additional inclusions. So, what are those five love languages exactly? 

Physical affection

 This love language is based on the physical display of love and affection. People who rule this love language express their feelings through hugs, kisses, holding hands, etc. For them, a touch will say more than some pretty words. In return, they thrive on physical contact as well. If you are in a relationship with such a person, always opt for physical signs of love. 

Quality time

 That's a pretty self-explanatory love language as well. If you are this type, you value the quality time spent with your partner and require undivided attention when doing something together. It's easy to notice if this is somebody's love language as they want to spend every minute of every day with you. And they don't like to be apart with their s.o. for an extended period of time. As you've probably already guessed, long-distance relationships are not for them. 

Words of Affirmation

 If you think that only ladies love to hear loving words, you are mistaken. This is a relatively common love language, no matter what gender you are. Such people thrive on the kind of loving words. Though they know that a person loves them, they need to hear it often to feel those butterflies! In return, they are eloquent and open about their feelings as well. They are not afraid to confess first. 

Receiving gifts

 This is not the love language of materialistic and fake people. There is nothing terrible in this love language at all! You don't need to buy them the most expensive presents to show how much you value them. If this is your language, you probably don't expect anything luxurious. You appreciate the thought better. Nothing small but meaningful would do. The gift has to show that a person thinks of you and loves you. 

Acts of Service

 This may be a trickier one to notice, but it is quite expected anyway. This love language is for people who value the help and support they get from their partners. They will do something for you, and you can do something for them to show your love (like washing the dishes or dusting even!) You may also like his BTS bias quiz to learn who is your perfect man. 

Love Language Quiz: Which Do You Speak? Questions

love language quiz Do you often initiate physical contact with your partner?
  • yes, I can't live without hugs

  • sometimes, but not often

  • no

love language quiz What do you think of long-distance relationship?
  • I can manage that

  • I've tried that but will not do that again

  • no, I can't keep distance between us

love language quiz What do you think about breakfast in bed?
  • I'm a big fan!

  • it's quite appetizing

  • not a fan

love language quiz How often do you tell your partner that you love them?
  • almost every day

  • a couple of times a week

  • once or twice a month

  • too rarely

love language quiz How much time do you spend on choosing a gift for your s.o.?
  • I think about it for weeks

  • several days before the occasion

  • I buy it last minute

love language quiz Are you comfortable with kissing on public?
  • yes

  • just small pecks 

  • not at all 

love language quiz Are you a generous partner?
  • yes, very generous 

  • I prefer equal give/take relationships 

  • I'm usually on the receiving end 

love language quiz Are you a romantic at heart?
  • yes, but I'm a passive romantic mostly 

  • no, I'm not romantic 

  • yes, I appreciate doing and receiving romantic suprsises once in a wile 

love language quiz Are you a smooth talker?
  • the smoothest

  • when the situation needs it

  • no, I'm bad with words

love language quiz When you choose a gift for family and friends, how much time do you spend on it?
  • I can search for the right gift for weeks 

  • a couple of days

  • just a few hours, mostly right before the occasion

love language quiz Choose a sign that you'd like to date:
  • Aries

  • Taurus

  • Gemini

  • Cancer

  • Leo

  • Virgo

  • Libra

  • Scorpio

  • Sagittarius

  • Capricorn

  • Aquarius

  • Pisces

love language quiz To wake up your partner, you usually
  • whisper how much you love them and it's time to get up 

  • make them coffee in bed 

  • hug them 

love language quiz Your perfect date is
  • doing to the cinema/watching movies at home 

  • a tasty home-made dinner 

  • date in a restaurant 

  • a romantic game for two 

  • dancing in a night club 

  • a picnic

love language quiz Do you have common hobbies with your partner?
  • all our hobbies are shared

  • some of them 

  • no, we have separate hobbies 

love language quiz What would you rather get as a present?
  • someting small bit meaningful

  • jewelry 

  • perfume 

  • a smartphone

  • just anything 

love language quiz Leaving your partner love notes on mirrors, fridge, sticker notes: cute or cringey?
  • cute

  • cringey 

love language quiz Are you fast to fall in love?
  • super fast 

  • it takes a bit of time 

  • it can take months

  • it' always love from the first sight for me!

love language quiz During your free days, you
  • spend alone time with my partner

  • spend time with friends and family 

love language quiz Are you comfortable in silence with your partner?
  • yes, always

  • just not when we are fighting

  • just not tool long

  • not comfortable

love language quiz Do you know how your partner likes their coffee?
  • yes, because I often make them one 

  • yes, I just know 

  • actually, no idea

love language quiz How will you comfort your partner after a stressful day?
  • hug and kiss them 

  • make them a tasty dinner 

  • buy them something cute 

  • talk them through and tell they are doing great 

  • just spend a quite evening together

  • all of the above! 

love language quiz Do you prefer sitting near your partner or in front of them in a restaurant if you have a choice?
  • near

  • in front 

love language quiz What quality would you like to change in yourself?
  • I'm too impatient

  • I work too much 

  • I'm hot-tempered 

  • I'm shy

  • I don't trust easily 

love language quiz How would you react if you s.o. or friends spend most of your evening together staring on the phone?
  • it's okay, I do the same 

  • okay only if they do something important 

  • I don't mind

  • I will not tolerate it 

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