Should I Ask Her Out?

By: Ira Kurylenko
Updated: 3 months ago
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Do you have a girl you like? And haven't you made a move yet? No worries! This quiz will help you with the decision. Should you ask her out, or is it too early?

If you don't want to face rejection but still want to choose the right moment to get a 100% yes, spend a couple of minutes here answering our questions!
Asking someone on a date can be a daunting challenge, but the risk-reward ratio is well worth it. Let's find the perfect moment to balance the exhilarating and nerve-wracking aspects of dates!

How to Ask Her Out?

should i ask her out
The art of asking a girl on a date is sensitive and somewhat mysterious to men. Even women are not perfect in this task (girls take this quiz to be more confident before asking him out). That's mostly due to the number of variables that come with it.

Step 1: Determine if you truly like her. It may seem like an obvious prerequisite for asking someone out, but you'd be surprised how many people do it frivolously. First and foremost, are you sure that you really like the girl and want to build a relationship with her? Yes? Then let's move forward.
Step 2: Confidence is key. Believe in yourself and the qualities you bring to the table. Remember that the person you're interested in is likely to appreciate your genuine interest and courage in taking this step. However...
Step 3: Do you think she likes you back? Obviously, we can never be 100% sure at this stage, but there are certain signs she might be interested. Take notice of her behavior towards you. Is she flirting? Is she laughing at your jokes? Is she single?
Step 4: Now it's time to actually act! Find the perfect moment. Not sure if there is one? Create one yourself! It could be during a casual conversation, a shared activity, or a quiet moment where you both have each other's undivided attention.

Should I Ask Her to Be My Girlfriend?

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Be direct and clear about your intentions. State that you would like to spend more time together and ask if she would be interested in going on a date. Keep it simple and avoid putting too much pressure on the situation.
Don't be a player. If you want her to be your girlfriend, ask her on a date first. And that will be the perfect setting for the next "girlfriend" question.

If you're not sure how to ask your crush out, complete this quiz first to check whether you're truly ready for this step. Answer the questions honestly and enjoy the process.

If you succeed and the girl accepts, make concrete plans for the date. Consider her preferences and interests while suggesting an activity or a place to go. This shows that you value her input and are genuinely interested in creating a meaningful experience for both of you.
Note! This quiz is also applicable is asking HIM out!

Should I Ask Her Out? Questions

should i ask my crush out Do you listen to the same kind of music?
  • yes, our tastes are very similar

  • somewhat, we do have several artists we both love

  • not really

  • I don't really know what music she likes

should i ask my crush out Would you say her body language is open and welcoming when talking to you?
  • yes

  • yeah, but she's generally open with everybody

  • no, she's closed

  • I'm not an expert in body language, no idea

should i ask my crush out How often does she ask you for advice?
  • advice? never heard that before

  • I'm her go-to advisor!

  • just sometimes

  • I can only remember one or two times

should i ask my crush out Does she ever text you first?
  • yes! often

  • sometimes

  • just a couple of times

  • no, never

should i ask my crush out Has she ever cancelled her plans specifically because of you? (to meet, help you, etc.)
  • yes, she's so nice!

  • she was ready to but we managed without that

  • not as far as I know

  • I've never asked her to, so I don't know if she would

should i ask my crush out In case you don't have a shared group of friends, has she introduced you to HER friends?
  • we already hang out with the same people

  • yes, I met some of her friends

  • not yet

  • we are not at that stage of friendship yet, barely know each other

should i ask my crush out Are you romantic?
  • yes, 100% romantic

  • somewhat, not that much

  • not really but for her I can be

  • nono, that's me me!

should i ask my crush out Would you rather face rejection or miss an opportunity forever?
  • face rejection

  • miss an opportunity

should i ask my crush out How would you describe the topic you discuss together most of the time?
  • safe and generic

  • boring

  • stimulating and interesting

  • open and personal

should i ask my crush out Is she generally a kind person?
  • yes, the kindest

  • I think so...

  • no, she's a bit rough around the edges

  • I don't know her that well

how to ask your crush out When you are talking, does she look you in the eyes?
  • yes, and I really like her eyes

  • not often but she does at times

  • not really, I don't remember catching her eyes

  • I'm too shy, I'm not looking!

how to ask your crush out How often does she laugh at your jokes?
  • always!

  • most of the time, yeah (when it's a good joke)

  • I don't really remember her laughing specifically at my joke

  • honestly, I'm not a funny person

how to ask your crush out Do you often spend time alone, just the two of you?
  • no, we are always in a company of friends

  • very rarely, when we meet with other people and are left alone at some point

  • not often, but it happens

  • yes, we are great friends, we often hang out alone

how to ask your crush out Do you think you love her?
  • that's too strong of a world!

  • maybe? I definitely have "feelings"

  • yeah, I actually do

  • nope, it's more like passion

how to ask your crush out Does she ask about your hobbies?
  • yes, she's genuinely interested

  • yes, but we don't talk about it much

  • nope, she does not

  • we are hardly talking at this point

how to ask your crush out Can you two openly discuss 18+ topics?
  • yeah, we are completely open; no topic is strictly taboo

  • I mean we can but we don't usually do that

  • we get a bit awkward when it goes near that topic

  • I have no idea, that's too much

how to ask your crush out When you are in a bad mood, does she try to make you happy, make you smile?
  • yes, she can do that easily

  • I don't really remember her cheering me up

  • yes, she does when we hang out but she doesn't go out of her way for that

  • nope, it's usually the other way around

how to ask your crush out Is she active on your social media accounts? (liking, tagging, commenting, etc.)
  • yes

  • no

how to ask your crush out Has she ever asked if you had a girlfriend?
  • yep, she did

  • not directly but that was the topic of discussion

  • no, never

  • we have the same group of friends, there are no secrets anyway

how to ask your crush out Did she ever share her secret with you?
  • not with me directly, with the whole group of friends

  • no, I don't know her secrets

  • not a major one

  • yes, I know her deep secret!

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Ira Kurylenko

Meet Irene, the quiz mastermind who is constantly pushing the limits of what we know. She is a true quiz connoisseur, crafting brain-bending questions that challenge us to think outside the box. Her quizzes are the perfect blend of fun and educational, making her a fan favorite.